Hostesses of the bridal shower, do we bring them a hostess gift?

i didn't know if i should show up with a bottle of wine or some flowers or something?
Hostesses of the bridal shower, do we bring them a hostess gift?
i think flowers would be really nice since shes hosting the party!
Reply:If you are, in fact the bride, then yes, it is customary to take your hostess a gift. Why don't you make her a beautiful basket with a bottle of wine, a scented candle, a music CD, some chocolates sprinkled in...attach a note that says...Thank you for everything! Use these items to relax and enjoy yourself this evening after the shower...you deserve it! Love,



If you are just a guest attending the shower...no it is not customary...although it is a wonderful gesture to take a little something for the hostess.



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Reply:If you're the bride then you should bring a gift and a card thanking them for throwing the shower.



If you're a guest, your not obligated to but you could bring a bottle of wine or some food to share at the party if you wanted to.
Reply:If you mean the bride bringing it, then yes, that would probably be a nice thing to do, but if you mean each and every guest, then no.
Reply:Usually you are just supposed to get a gift for the bride.
Reply:Yes, I would bring something. Maybe flowers that she could display during the shower.
Reply:Always a nice gesture- if you are the bride to be its an even better idea :0)
Reply:Ya i would take a bottle of wine, its always a nice gesture.
Reply:bring them a hostest snack...nevermind...idk.