Advice Please, How can show someone important that i care about then?

I had been a below average boyfriend and i had so many plans for my ex but i didt want to tell her because i wanted to be a surprise, she is taken out her anger at me by getting with a really bad person on the same day that we broke up, i want to show that i really care, i had sent her flowers and explain why i havent gone away, and why im still here trying to fight for her, but she is still mad, some advice please
Advice Please, How can show someone important that i care about then?
Leave her alone. Im not saying dump her but right now she thinks youre desperate so shes holding onto that power she has over you. Stop calling her, dont communicate with her at all and she will wonder where you went and eventually contact you. Play it cool but be nice and slowly see about getting back with her. As long as she thinks shes in control she will stay mad.
Reply:you need to read the 5 love languages book http://amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw/104-741...
Reply:tell her your true feelings and show her that you care about her im kind of in the same boat right now but it may take some time and she might see before its too late that you are meant to be together
Reply:Every person is different to the other. Therefore there is no general advice possible, except perhaps: Do care more about your attitude of your gf. next time.
Reply:Well , how do you feel you have been below average as a boyfriend and why is she so angry ? With a little more to work with I could offer better advice .
Reply:Good question. If I knew the answer to that, I'd probably find a way to bottle it and sell it. Sometimes people don't know because they don't want to know. They'd rather think that we don't care.
Reply:its really hard to forgive someone who cheats ..