When it comes to sex education for children, is it a good idea to show them how graphic it will turn out?

I mean showing them a porn movie to show how it's really done? Not to go through that whole bees-and-flowers, when-a man-love-a-woman-very-much stuff...



Or will that be too traumatizing?
When it comes to sex education for children, is it a good idea to show them how graphic it will turn out?
A porn movie sounds VERY unnecessary. Just tell the kids.
Reply:Porn movies are not really that realistic. Not a good idea.
Reply:IMO that is a horrible idea!
Reply:OMG PORN NOT A GOOD IDEA AT ALL!!! You shouldn't have to mention what actually goes on during sex. Kids are smarter then they seem... and depending on the age the kid has probably heard about it thru friend, tv, or even school education. I knew what it was in 2nd grade just from hear say. Just make sure the kid is well educated on the subject so that they think about it responsibly.
Reply:have you been smoking something?? why for the love of Pete would you show a porno to a kid? Talking honestly and frankly about sex is the best approach.
Reply:I am not a porn lover but the few I have seen don't give the message of 'when a man loves a woman' it was more like how many can she.. Well there is no need to go any further I am sure it is well understood what porn is for. If you are serious about talking with to your children about sex make sure they are mentally and mature enough to even understand. I wouldn't give allll the details as to what exactly goes on in the act. Just maybe that when an ADULT man and ADULT woman love one another (hopefully are married but with how our children are more like little grown ups that might be wishful thinking on my part) they share and show their love by becoming one. There are many ways to show you love someone but when you are in love the feeling of love is different in a special way. I think that is how I would some what phrase it..
Reply:Uh, children do not need to see porn.
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